Dazzle Diary by ع طاہر

                                                       Forgiveness... Let forgive others just for the sake of your Assuredness... Forgiveness in literal meaning is the act of excusing a mistake or offense. We all are human beings and I think all of us are get offended or wronged by someone. Many in our lives hurt us so badly that whenever we try to move on in our lives the grudge on them or the Slash given by them will never allow us to move on because we don’t want to forget them just by forgiving them instead we love to give them the unwanted importance in our lives by hating and remembering them. I read somewhere: “Don’t give unwanted importance to people in your life by hating them rather make them embarrassed just by forgiving them” Forgiving others is the best trait in a person ever because only a few of us have the temperament to forgive oth...

                    The joint Family system is a mess... I often listen that a joint family system is best for the mental and emotional training of kids.  It provides a healthy environment to live in. It provides the kid allot of relations to enjoy. It taught them how to respect others. Kids get training that how to live with their relatives and others. They are going to face a lot of issues there. But Rather than this many of us want to be live in a joint family even knowing about the issues and crises that someone would face in these systems. To be very honest I observed a joint family system at the closest range and believe it’s nothing else than the biggest mess of your life. In joint families, you don’t have the right to live your life instead you are taught how to please your relatives. It doesn’t matter what you did or what you are going to do and what you have done just to please them. Such relatives believe that it’s their ...

                           Self Respect or Self-esteem... You can't force someone to respect you,                                                                   But                                                                             you can refuse to be disrespected..... Self Respect is holding yourself in esteem and believing that you are good and worthy of being treated well... it's a feeling of confidence and pride in your own ability and worth...   It's the sense of one's own dignity and worth... But it's totally different from ego. ...

                 Equanimity or Tranquility…  Equanimity isn’t just a condition of mind rather it is the basic need of every human in the world and the most precious asset the person ever attained… I often think what calmness is??? How can I achieve the purest form of calmness??? Sometimes I feel helpless in front of the thought that where calmness is???  We all are seeking calmness in different worldly forms and a few from us will get… Every person in the world thinks that the other one is happy or calm not knowing about their problems, we really don’t think that we are also other for the world… Rich thinks that the poor are calm and happy because he doesn’t have power or money which is the root of all evils But don’t think that lack of money is supposed to be his biggest problem, on the other hand, the poor think that the rich are happy and calm because he has money or power he can buy happiness and calmness for him but he ...

                                          Fear… Fear or fright is an emotion experienced in anticipation of some specific pain or danger usually accompanied by a desire to flee or fight… Fear is not a single word rather it contains thousands of feelings in it. All of us are afraid of some kind of fear in our lives. Some are afraid of heights, some are afraid of water, while some are of darkness but among all these, the most horrible fear is of insects like lizards, cockroaches, bees, and some other insects like this … In our childhood we are spooned with fear more than foodstuff...  whenever we refuse to eat, our mother threatened us to eat it otherwise the monster will come and that was the fear of some spirit that we don’t know how it will come and from where it will come  … when we refuse to study someone affright us of whack that our dad will come and beat us or i...

                   Memories counts...   Nothing counts more than memories... Memories, Retention is the one source of recalling the past moments,  some good, some bad Some joyous, some sad. They are just one thing that makes you smile even in the worst scenarios. Sometimes we are sitting in the gathering and then suddenly we remember something and start smiling or become sad, all around us become surprised that what happened to us But exactly it is the impact of some forgetful memories. Memories have the power to make you cry or make you laugh.  Either they'll give you tears or gives you the thousand dollars smile that you are unable to buy with money. All of us love to confined all the memories in different forms, Many are fond of capturing the moments in different multimedia forms like pictures, videos while others love to write a diary to recall their past moments. Some of our memories are confined to specific p...

                            Every life is Important ... Allah hath created every being for a specific purpose... Every life is important .. All creatures are here in this world for a reason. Allah has created different creatures to balance the whole system of the universe... In different verses, it is stated that: "Allah love His creatures 70 times more than a mother... " The mother loves her kids unconditionally. There is no substitute for Mother's love So how we can find a substitute for our Lord's love. He'll never leave us alone Put your trust in Allah (SWT), he'll never let you down. Today the world is suffering from severe pandemic issues spreading all over the world ۔It's damnation from the lord coz of the wrong deeds and mischievous happening around us. Blasphemy, Pornography, Injustice, violations, Prostitution,  hoarding, black marketing, Corruption, Adulteration is on the peak. Poor becomes po...